Posts Tagged ‘ Travel ’

Wine-country Affair

Wine-country Affair

Silken on Sex #79. Summer’s end. Time for the grape, both sipping and harvesting. I’ve got this huge extended family here in California–we were here prior to the Gold Rush–and there are miles of vines in one appellation named after a great-great auntie of mine. Everyone gathers at the winery for The Press and for futures tasting, and during one of the gatherings some friends of my cousins caught me in an odd moment. I’d just gotten off the phone with my lover, who was on his way out of the country and was pouty (though he denied it) over the fact that I was not accompanying him this time. Jim and Bev were on the deck sipping chardonnay when I stepped outside. I was tucking my phone away in my cleavage when he looked directly at me and said “That gives a whole new meaning to ‘you’re talking to…

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Sandstone Pudendum

Sandstone Pudendum

I call this rock formation the Sandstone Pudendum. This photograph was taken in Kolob Canyon, which is a remote northern section of Zion National Park in Utah. I was struck immediately by its obvious resemblance to the female pudendum, or vulva. I’m not certain of the size, but I’d say that the cleft itself is at least 2000 feet, and quite likely more, seeing as the trees around it are Ponderosa Pines, which tend to reach 150 feet in this area. If I’d had the time, I would have hiked up into that huge cleft. There is something awe-inspiring about it, for me anyway. I cannot help but think that it is a holy place, seeing as it so directly resembles the ‘sacred feminine’, the entrance into the chalice, that holy grail of womanhood (ok, so I’ve read the Da Vinci Code). Seriously though, I get goosebumps whenever I see…

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Traveling Skirts

Traveling Skirts

I wear skirts when I travel. I generally wear skirts regardless of whether I am flying or driving, and except in cases of deep snow, regardless of the weather. Most women I know think I’m nuts. But I have my reasons, good reasons. Skirts are comfortable. They are unrestrictive, allowing a full range of motion. If they get twisted, they do not tug or cut painfully into anything. They allow for air-flow when it is hot. When it is cold, bike shorts or leggings can be worn underneath without compromising comfort. But regardless of these practicalities, there is a better reason to wear skirts when traveling: People are more courteous. I find that when I am wearing a skirt or dress, people are more polite. Bus, tram, trolly, and shuttle drivers always rush to help me with my bags. Service staff at hotels, restaurants and airports are both more deferential…

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Explore Your Sexuality

From my lips to your ears

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