Silken has been asked a lot of questions regarding erotica, sexuality, intimacy and relationships since she went public with her passion in 2005. If you have a question or advice you’d like to ask, please leave a comment or send an email to the Contact address below.
Silken on Sex #76: Midori, sex-educator extraordinaire, has put out a call stating that she wants Women’s Words on their Orgasms. So I sent her mine. When I become aroused I start with a feeling of warmth of increasing languidness I can feel my skin flushing feel the flush of heat inside me feel...
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The more stressed I am, the more I want sex. Want it to the point where I can find repeated statements in my journal to the effect that I felt I needed sex. Not comfort, not conversation, not food, not sleep. Sex. Which many people I know consider rather strange. “How can you want...
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Tags: Advice, health, Masturbation, Politics of Sexuality, sex, Sexuality, Stress
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This feedback was sent by: Anonymous Q: Does your face match the Silken Voice? Does your quick intellect match the hint of impatience in your stories? What are the colors of your spirit and passion and mind? Does writing soothe the wounds from the slings and arrows of this life? The reader cannot help...
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Silken on Sex #73: Q: Dear Silkenvoice, my husband has to travel a lot for work, sometimes even out of the country, and I know he gets lonely–and horny. I know he charges porn and phone sex to his card and I’m mostly ok with it because I know he needs the release, and...
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Image via Wikipedia Q: Dear Silkenvoice, I like listening to your podcasts and stories because your voice changes colors when I listen. Most recorded voices don’t. I know that sounds weird, but when I hear sounds, especially music and voices, I also see colors. The few people I’ve told about this think I’m making...
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Silken on Sex #61: In this episode, Silken answers a question from one of her listeners, Paul, who asked for help in dealing with a fetish that has taken over his sexuality, making it difficult for him to climax during sex with his wife. If you have questions for Kayar Silkenvoice, you can email...
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Q: Dear Silkenvoice: As I’ve gotten older my sexual needs have become more and more specific. I can only cum if the circumstances are just-so (I have a fetish). I can rarely cum when my wife and I have sex and she is taking it personally. Is there something wrong with me? What can...
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Tags: Erogenous zone, Masturbation, Orgasm, Sexual arousal, Sexual intercourse, Sexuality
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Q: I tried anal sex with my wife. Once. Apparently we didn’t know what we were doing but based on some things you’ve said in your stories, it can be intensely pleasurable and we’d like to experience that. So, what is the right way to go about it? A: I started with anal sex...
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